WHERE REAL CONNECTIONS START

Tired of the dating game?

You're not alone.

We are Not a Date...
We are just the beginning.

We offer a relaxed, no-hassle, safe way of meeting like-minded single people in a face-to-face, group environment.

An array of fabulous events on offer; monthly drinks soirees; supported one-to-one dating advice and personal service from an experienced team.

Our application process is serious:
We put in all the hard work so you don’t have to.

Genuine, respectful people

Safe
environment

Unforgettable events

Our events...

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Don't Take Our Word For It...

"Not a Date seems to me to be the perfect solution. All the negativity of the apps, the fakeness, falseness and deception, removed by Not a Date and perfectly designed events to meet that person. Bring it on”

Imogen
from Leicester

"I tried the apps, but I do not have time to wade through the time wasters and the pictures – goodness me the pictures! Not a Date is the perfect answer. I know Mr Right is not going to knock on my door, but this way I have a social life, meet new people and may meet Mr Right. Win win!”

Anne
from Oxford

"Not all men are bad but there are certainly a few out there giving us a terrible reputation. Not a Date seems to be the reassurance we both need to meet genuine people in a relaxed safe environment. It’s a great idea!”

Mike
from Leicester

"Not a Date seems to make sense. They do all the vetting and people who go through that are clearly serious, AND the date gets arranged for me. I cannot wait!”

Pete
from Rugby

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